About
"I don't know what to do or say to women"
That was me. In college, I was a math nerd. I could barely socialize, let alone flirt. One summer day, I awkwardly remarked to a guy I’d just met, “Dude, there are so many hot girls.” Instead of the usual “Yeah, check her out!” he challenged me, “Why don’t you go talk to one?”
This caught me off guard. I deflected, “Nah, I need money first,” but he retorted, “You must have some serious insecurities.” My ego was shattered. For the first time, I admitted aloud, to myself and this stranger, that I just didn’t know what to do or say. Beautiful women were right before me, yet mentally, they felt a canyon apart. It was at this moment my journey began.
Eventually, I went from hoping to somehow end up with a woman to being empowered to choose women who delight me. Having walked that path, I realized I could help others do the same.
The Winksman Philosophy
What is it about a man that creates that 'raw chemistry' and strong attraction in a woman?
There’s an endless number of songs and romance novels written about it this “X-factor” that some men have. It’s even crossed cultures — “Gee” by the k-pop group Girls Generation, was all about the electricity she feels whenever he’s around, and she doesn’t know why.
How does one become *that* guy?
For starters… Honesty is attractive.
Forget tricks, gimmicks, and “secret techniques”— all nonsense! Authenticity is key… Both with women and with yourself.
“How do I stay authentic while being attractive?” Through learning charisma, wit, and charm. You develop a depth of presence that exudes energy. This way, even just saying “hi” can be naturally powerful, and you’re just being yourself. Yes, this can be learned.
“But how do I learn this?”
By taking a holistic, tailored approach that boosts both your mental and external game...
- Learn elite social skills and use them freely in public
- Gain a better understanding of how women think
- Elevate your status
- Develop foundational, grounded confidence
- Gain inner clarity about who you are as a man and live a purpose driven life
- Make lifestyle changes that attract beauty into your life.
- Unlearn personal roadblocks, often self-imposed — those negative things we tell ourselves without even realizing.
...You'll see that success with women isn't technically the goal in itself, but a consequence of who you are
You’ll be at ease among women. Instead of an “us vs. them” mentality, you’ll think and feel just “us” – how it’s supposed to be.
It doesn’t matter if you’re a complete beginner. I can teach one with zero social skills to become a master conversationalist. I’ve been there myself.
If our values align, get in touch. Discovery calls are free. For a limited time, so is my first service to you. At worst, you lose a bit of time. At best, you shun mediocrity and step into a vibrant life of beauty and passion.